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Posted by MGK in NC @ 21:12 on Mar 4 2011

This was a shocker. My mind went back about 6yrs ago when I was in your position. I was totally blown away. We were together for 20yrs with four grown children and grandchildren. I thought that I lived in the perfect world. I almost gave up...BUT GOD!! My pastor preached that one Sunday (just when I needed it). With much prayers from my family and friends, I've made it!! Some will say that you should go back that divorce isn't the answer but God let me know that He had better things for me. I took that and ran with it!! He's blessed me financially, spirtually, and physically (health). No I'm not with anyone and I'm yet better than blessed. I have a lot of caring friends that fills that void in my life and of course I have the support of my children and grandchildren. God is awesome and He is so lovingly kind. The hurt will not disappear overnight. It will ease up as time goes by. My ex is trying to sneak back in like he never done anything wrong. He's never apologize and all he keeps saying is he wants his family back. I believe that when God delivered me, He didn't mean for me to go back in bondage. I praise God everyday. You are in my prayers and just know that you have someone interceding for you each day...BE BLESSED ALWAYS!!


Reply by SLD in NC @ 01:28 on Jun 17 2011

@MGK, UR POST WAS THE ONE TO SIT WITH ME. (DONT KNOW WHY). IM STRUGGLIN SO HARD TO MAINTAIN MY SANITY IN THE MIDST OF A TROUBLED MARRIAGE. MY HUSB OF 14YRS HAS TOLD ME HE DOESNT LOVE ME ANYMORE AND HE IS NOT HAPPY. YET, WE ARE IN A YR LEASE WHICH MEANS I HAVE TO ENDURE THIS FOR THE NXT YEAR, LIVING WITH HIM, KNOWING HOW HE FEELS ABOUT ME. ITS GUT WRENCHING. MY KIDS ARE SUFFERING B/C IM SUFFERING. IM IN CONSTANT PRAYER, PLEADING THE HAND OF GOD BE UPON ME, TO SUSTAINE ME, KEEP ME FROM DEATH. THE PAIN IS UNBEARABLE AT TIMES. IM HERE IN NC, MOVED FROM UP NORTH 4YRS AGO, JUST US, NO OTHER FAMILY. FEELING SO VERY ALONE AND LONELY. THOUGHTS OF HIM HAVING SOMEONE ELSE IS SALT IN THE WOUND. PLEASE PRAY MY STRENGHT, PLEASE!

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Reply by emmanuel mukula in zambia @ 17:00 on Mar 19 2011

fred for mw is an inspiration thats made pull through so many lifes challenges with his songs.
am sure he has healed by now and GOD sure has seen him through.if he had to do that,then lets be happy he did..SOETIMES WE TRY SO HARD TO HOLD ON TO WHAT GOD HIMSELF IS TRYING TO TEAR APART.go bless you.

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Posted by Gail @ 17:57 on Mar 4 2011

Dear Fred,

sorry for what is happening with you marriage. Love you and your music. stay blessed
Gail
NJ



Posted by andrea moore massey in monroe nc @ 02:51 on Feb 17 2011

i am sorry that you and your wife didn't make together it will be all right as time go on and in tme god will send you some one that is on the same road with you god bless and i am a big fan of your



Posted by Lakeesha Brown in Virginia Beach,Va @ 22:34 on Feb 16 2011

Fred,I take it though your songs you r a strong man,God did not bring you this far to stop here.Like your song say,those that wait on the Lord.I believe that what you r doing so when she come you will know.Fred be Bless!



Posted by Ray in New York City @ 16:47 on Feb 8 2011

Psalms 5

Give ear to my words O Lord consider my sighing. Listen to my cry for help my king and God for to you I pray.



Posted by Tracy Walker in Detroit, MI @ 03:14 on Jan 29 2011

I truly understand what you are going threw. I just want you to know that I'm suportting you 3000 and 50% May GOD bring to you HAPPINESS and PEACE... Just keep your faith and keep sining with your blessed voice and remember GOD don't allow us to go threw anything that we aren't supose to go threw... Each trail is a stepping stone and a NEW BEGINING!!!! With love from your DETROIT SISTER!!!



Posted by Rita Wilson in Washington. DC @ 10:44 on Jan 17 2011

Dear Brother Fred,
First lest me say that I have loved your music for years. I am 64 years old and you music is on my mp3 and I put me earphones in my hears at night and fall alsleep to your ministry of music. I never knew that your were married. I was lying in my bed this morning listening to "Your Love" and thought to myself that I never knew if you were married or not. Well. now I know and my heart goes out to you. Be everblessed my brother as you continue to minister to everyone through song. I've been married 25 years and separated for 2, had open heart surgery and a mechanical valve placed in my heart, lost my home and had to result to living with one of my children who has 11 children, living off of $400 a month, wanted to give up so many times but I bless the name of the Lord that I didnt. I dont have a Church home as of last April and no friends, but when I listen to your music I know that there is hope in Christ and I will not give up. Be Ever Blessed and continue to Be A Blessing to all of us!



Posted by rhonda in springfield, ohio @ 19:27 on Jan 5 2011

You are my all time favorite gospel artist and the funny thing is my husband is told he could be your brother! Anyway, since we were married last August the devil has been nonstop. We have been separated for 2 months now. But God is in control of everything...we are God's children now not when we get it together. Stay prayerful!! Thanks for being such a blessing in our household. Love and peace unto you our brother in Christ.



Posted by AVA @ 05:13 on Jan 3 2011

The state of God's marriages are really, really bad. Divorce should never be the way of escape. I know times get hard and sometimes you may just straight hate each other person, but I so believe God can do anything. I mean anything. My husband left me almost one year ago. I don't know where he lives I barely even talk to him. His family cut me off as if I was the one cheating or doing all these horrible things. Yet, God shows me everything that goes on in his life through dreams.

I had made up my mind to go and file for divorce and restart my life. God told me I could not file for divorce, but if he wants out let him file. So of course it was a great blower to my heart.

Since the day my husband left, God has had me to pray for marriages and the men. Something I was not trying to do because I'm looking at the state of my marriage. I am obeying God anyway. We have to take our marriages back by force and God has given us 10,000 angels to helps us fight this battle. So if no one else will fight, I will! Why do you think the church is so out of order. The family is out of order. I just want everyone to have what God says we can have, because it is promised to us and we are just giving it to the devil.

I am 33 years old and I have been for married 3 years with no kids. Yet God says, I will have a child and I was told I have polycystic ovarian syndrome, which makes it hard to have kids. No husband to have a child with...I have no choice but to trust God! I do not know what my outcome may be in my marriage because my husband has a will of his own. But I trust God. I have nothing to lose in doing so but I have everything to gain!

Be Blessed and Trust God in All things!



Posted by olivia Voltaire in Atlanta,Ga @ 00:13 on Dec 26 2010

i think perspective may be half the battle;I've been married for ten plus years and i have been miserable for almost everyone.After having a stroke from hormone use 18 months agoand losing all my independance,my two oldest daughters because of our constant fighting,watching my youngest twobe hurt hurt all over again like the first two,my oldest are twenty year old twins; I now wish I had left thirteen years ago.While I have never cheated and don't think I couldI wish I had left when I was still strong and full of my own strength. I am trusting God that He will take away my misery I can't keep living this wayI hurt every day!



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